NCF Microaggressions

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I bought a sub at Publix tonight, and I asked for just vegetables. The man making my sub said, “but you don’t need to be on a diet!” Are you fucking kidding me? While he probably thought he was giving me a compliment, I just saw it as another man trying to body police me.

— 4 months ago

Food Not Bombs recently had a meeting to begin servings for the year. Afterward, I wrote some information on the kitchen’s chalkboard regarding serving times, kitchen needs, etc. I came in today to see that someone had written “LAME” in large letters on the board. I am able-bodied, but this is frustrating and disgusting to see. Not only is this a starkly ableist term, it is very annoying that someone would take time out of their day to call an organization dedicated to fighting the violence of poverty ‘uncool’. Furthermore, one of our meeting’s major agenda items was to work toward creating a safer space environment at our cookings and servings. I can see that we might be facing an uphill battle this year.

— 4 months ago

HELLO ALL~

Feminist Alliance has a tumblr!!!!!!! There you’ll be able to find our meeting times and updates throughout the semester. We’ll also be accepting submissions on a variety of news articles, video, & anything else feminist you’d like to share. We’re still getting it worked out, but check out our MISSION STATEMENT in the meantime. If you have any edits or suggestions, please let us know. 

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AA & JK

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— 4 months ago

A male New College student once told me his theory that grade school is biased toward women, who are better at rote memorization and organization, while men excel in college because they are better at abstract, higher order thinking.  Since he lacks the ability to memorize and organize, they must be inferior feminine traits! As a cis female, made me feel angry at hearing such bullshit sexist ‘logic’ and dismayed that he was resorting to sexist generalizations to feed his own ego. And at New College of all places!

— 5 months ago with 4 notes

“yeah, but when a male teacher gets caught sleeping with a female underage student, everyone is secretly cheering for him… it’s when he gets caught with another dude that we all want that asshole to go to jail.” - guy at a party, where everyone laughed and nodded with approval

— 5 months ago

happy holidayz y’all, NCFmicroaggressions officially has fifty followers! you all are the best. keep those submissions coming!

keep calm and subvert domination,

feminist alliance

— 5 months ago

Today, my ex “joked” to me that i only got into this college because of the size of my breasts.

— 5 months ago

I’ve stopped talking about my stepmom because whenever I mention she doesn’t speak English people ask if she was a mail order bride.

— 5 months ago with 1 note

Over Thanksgiving break, my brother made a joke about “hoes” much to the amusement of the rest of my family. When I stated that I thought what he said was offensive, I was completely ignored. Made me feel silenced, angry, and like my family was not a safe space. 

— 5 months ago

I am a heterosexual woman who masturbates often and likes to watch porn. As a feminist I feel ashamed and conflicted about the fact that I watch porn, especially of men masturbating because it makes me feel voyeuristic (voyeurism is, obviously, the nature of porn). I’m actually becoming really reliant on it to get off. I miss being able to get off self-sufficiently, without porn. Where did my kinky imagination go?

— 6 months ago